Dear Old Blog,
During most times of national crisis, there are good ways to volunteer.
But, in this time of COVID-19, the current best way to help (for someone with no medical experience) seems to be to just stay home — and help stop the spread of the virus.
From the couch, there is one way to help, of course. And that's opening up the wallet.
Here are the three worthy organizations to which I've donated this week:
Actor's Fund
Washington Health System Foundation (in my native Washington County, Pennsylvania)
NYU Student Emergency Relief (my alma mater)
These donations were not large. But, I hope to do more. As Thornton Wilder said in "The Matchmaker":
"Money is like manure; it's not worth a thing unless it's spread around encouraging young things to grow.”
Love,
Paul
Thursday, March 26, 2020
Wednesday, March 25, 2020
COVID-19 Diary: Day 12
Dear Old Blog,
Tomorrow (Thursday, March 26), a "stay-at-home" order goes into effect here in Orange County in Florida.
With that in mind, even though we haven't been out of the house in days, Eric and I went for a little ride in the car late this afternoon — reasoning it might be our last chance to do so for a while.
We didn't plan to get out of the car.
We thought about going through the local Starbucks drive-through. But we passed on that after seeing the long line of cars already there.
We then went to the bank. (I'm thrilled that Pittsburgh's own PNC opened a branch here in Lake Nona a few months ago.)
Finally, we swung by Eric's office. He ran in and watered his 12 orchids there. (Yeah, he's into orchids.)
Love,
Paul
Tuesday, March 24, 2020
COVID-19 Diary: Day 11
Tonight, I attended a virtual party on Zoom to celebrate our friend Matt's 36th birthday.
More than 50 people took part.
The party had a circus theme. There was singing, including performances of tunes from "The Greatest Showman." Spoken word, video tributes, acrobatics and magic tricks also were part of the night.
The news today was not good. Among the hundreds of deaths was that of legendary playwright Terrence McNally. He died from coronavirus complications at age 81.
I bet Terrence would have loved Matt's party.
Love,
Paul
Monday, March 23, 2020
COVID-19 Diary: Day 10
Dear Old Blog,
I used Instacart for the first time today to have groceries delivered. It seemed safer than personally going to the grocery store.
It worked out well. But, our grocery store (Publix) was out of some items, including eggs.
The Instacart shopper erroneously delivered us four green peppers. We'll have to think of a recipe for those.
This evening, my old book club from NYC met via Zoom. It was awesome getting to chat and pray with all of them. I really miss my old crew.
Love,
Paul
I used Instacart for the first time today to have groceries delivered. It seemed safer than personally going to the grocery store.
It worked out well. But, our grocery store (Publix) was out of some items, including eggs.
The Instacart shopper erroneously delivered us four green peppers. We'll have to think of a recipe for those.
This evening, my old book club from NYC met via Zoom. It was awesome getting to chat and pray with all of them. I really miss my old crew.
Love,
Paul
Sunday, March 22, 2020
COVID-19 Diary: Day 9
Dear Old Blog,
In these days of COVID-19, Sundays are work days for me.
I spend Sundays sharing Facebook Live videos and tweeting to promote the Paulist Fathers' many online Masses around the United States. By the end of the day, I am really familiar with the Scripture readings of the day. And I hear lots of homilies. I probably should develop a homily scorecard.
For Catholics, today was the Fourth Sunday of Lent or "Laetare Sunday." It's known for the pink or rose vestments worn by priests celebrating Mass on this Sunday.
"Laetare" is Latin for "rejoice." Laetare Sunday is meant to be a day for joy amidst the somewhat somber nature of Lent.
It's hard to be joyful during a pandemic that is killing thousands of people.
But ... today also is composer and lyricist Stephen Sondheim's 90th birthday.
So, maybe we need a Sondheim tune to bring a bit of joy, or at least inspiration.
Here is "No One is Alone" from "Into the Woods":
In these days of COVID-19, Sundays are work days for me.
I spend Sundays sharing Facebook Live videos and tweeting to promote the Paulist Fathers' many online Masses around the United States. By the end of the day, I am really familiar with the Scripture readings of the day. And I hear lots of homilies. I probably should develop a homily scorecard.
For Catholics, today was the Fourth Sunday of Lent or "Laetare Sunday." It's known for the pink or rose vestments worn by priests celebrating Mass on this Sunday.
"Laetare" is Latin for "rejoice." Laetare Sunday is meant to be a day for joy amidst the somewhat somber nature of Lent.
It's hard to be joyful during a pandemic that is killing thousands of people.
But ... today also is composer and lyricist Stephen Sondheim's 90th birthday.
So, maybe we need a Sondheim tune to bring a bit of joy, or at least inspiration.
Here is "No One is Alone" from "Into the Woods":
Saturday, March 21, 2020
COVID-19 Diary: Day 8
Dear Old Blog,
Saturdays are less fun when every day looks like a Saturday.
But, with the COVID-19 death toll rising and hospital supplies running low around the country, I'm not going to complain about being bored or being stuck in the house.
Eric and I are happy and healthy in our house in Lake Nona, FL. The weather has been beautiful. We're blessed.
A boring Saturday is just fine.
I made my Great-Grandma Vincenti's risotto for dinner tonight. It's a recipe she learned from her mother-in-law, an immigrant to America from northern Italy.
For the risotto broth, I used organic, no-salt-added chicken broth out of a box instead of the old-school salty canned variety. It was fine. Fine like a boring Saturday.
But salty tastes better.
Love,
Paul
Saturdays are less fun when every day looks like a Saturday.
But, with the COVID-19 death toll rising and hospital supplies running low around the country, I'm not going to complain about being bored or being stuck in the house.
Eric and I are happy and healthy in our house in Lake Nona, FL. The weather has been beautiful. We're blessed.
A boring Saturday is just fine.
I made my Great-Grandma Vincenti's risotto for dinner tonight. It's a recipe she learned from her mother-in-law, an immigrant to America from northern Italy.
For the risotto broth, I used organic, no-salt-added chicken broth out of a box instead of the old-school salty canned variety. It was fine. Fine like a boring Saturday.
But salty tastes better.
Love,
Paul
Friday, March 20, 2020
COVID-19 Diary: Day 7
Dear Old Blog,
I wrote an obituary today for work. But, it wasn't related to COVID-19.
I also had pizza on the brain. So, that's what we ordered via Door Dash for dinner. (I'm still hoping food delivery isn't too dangerous right now – for the delivery people and for us).
Eric and I attempted our regular Friday "date night" at home tonight. After dinner, we shared a pint of Ben & Jerry's (cannoli flavored). We watched "Spider-Man: Into the Spider-Verse." Didn't love it. Didn't hate it.
Love,
Paul
Thursday, March 19, 2020
COVID-19 Diary: Day 6
Dear Old Blog,
Eric and I just came in from a little walk around our neighborhood, Laureate Park in Lake Nona, FL. It was a beautiful warm evening.
We went for a walk last night, too. That stroll was after dark around the big retention pond about a block from our house.
Going for walks is pretty much the only acceptable outing these days.
We still get food deliveries to the house (Mexican yesterday for lunch. Japanese tonight for dinner). I wonder about how much exposure to the virus that presents.
This morning, I learned that an acquaintance in New Jersey (a fellow NYU College of Arts & Science alumnus) has tested positive for COVID-19. He's treating the virus from home.
This evening, a friend in New York shared that a friend of his died due to the virus.
Yes, it's close to home.
Love,
Paul
Wednesday, March 18, 2020
COVID-19 Diary: Day 5
Dear Old Blog,
That dry cough seems to be almost gone.
I write that with a great deal of gratitude. I've begun to read about the immense lung pain and breathing trouble for some of those who have contracted COVID-19. It sounds awful.
I now have two acquaintances in New York City who have confirmed cases of the disease. From their social media posts, one seems to be doing fairly well. The other has been hit very hard.
Today was the first day that Eric worked completely from home. That's going well. It's nice to have him home with me.
At the current moment, my magnum opus is the the page on the Paulist Fathers website with the listing of online Mass broadcasts (since public Masses have been cancelled). It's nice to help provide a resource for anyone during this hard time.
Love,
Paul
That dry cough seems to be almost gone.
I write that with a great deal of gratitude. I've begun to read about the immense lung pain and breathing trouble for some of those who have contracted COVID-19. It sounds awful.
I now have two acquaintances in New York City who have confirmed cases of the disease. From their social media posts, one seems to be doing fairly well. The other has been hit very hard.
Today was the first day that Eric worked completely from home. That's going well. It's nice to have him home with me.
At the current moment, my magnum opus is the the page on the Paulist Fathers website with the listing of online Mass broadcasts (since public Masses have been cancelled). It's nice to help provide a resource for anyone during this hard time.
Love,
Paul
Tuesday, March 17, 2020
COVID-19 Diary: Day 4
Today's big decision was deciding whether or not to go to the poll and vote in Florida's presidential primary election.
I am feeling good today. The dry cough is minimal (without the benefit of any cough medicine for 24 hours).
I was loathe to sit out this primary election as it was my first opportunity to vote in Florida since we moved here last July. I missed last year's general election in November as I was in Pennsylvania with my mom during her time in hospice.
So, Eric and I went to our polling place in the lobby of the auditorium of Lake Nona High School. (The high school students are on spring break so there was no worry with that.)
I am pleased to report there was no line at all. In fact, Eric and I were the only voters in the space while we were voting.
Upon arrival, I spied a container of hand sanitizer on the sign-in table. I did apply some of the sanitizer to my hands.
We stayed back from the poll workers and marked our ballots easily and quickly with pens we had brought from home.
Then we exited. Easy-in and easy-out.
Technically-speaking, it was breaking the self-quarantine. But I think it went ok. I'm happy I voted.
Love,
Paul
Monday, March 16, 2020
COVID-19 Diary: Day 3
Dear Old Blog,
It's the third day of the self-quarantine. (That sounds so dramatic.)
The dry cough is still present but is currently masked by cough medicine. No sore throat today.
I thought that I felt a little warm this morning but my temperature reading was 98.5. So, no fever.
I didn't sleep well last night. But, honestly, I haven't been sleeping well for much of the past 10 months.
Last July, we moved to Lake Nona, FL, for Eric's new gig. And, for our house here, we bought a new Tempurpedic bed. I thought I was going to love this bed. At the store, it seemed so soft and luscious. Truth be told, I bullied Eric into spending more than he wanted to buy it.
But, the bed has turned out to be too soft and squishy, especially at the edges. It's hard to maintain a comfortable position for a full night.
But it's not just the bed. It's also the anxiety.
The anxiety comes from multiple places: figuring out how to successfully work remotely; the horrible state of our national politics; and the recent deaths of my mom and one of my sisters.
My mom, Diane Hertzler (pictured) died in November at age 61 after a short bout with advanced lung cancer that was diagnosed in August.
Last fall, I spent several weeks in Pittsburgh to be present during her time in hospice care.
The second death was that of my half-sister, Amanda Snatchko (pictured). Only 34, she died in January at her apartment in Hawaii. Amanda died following a struggle with alcoholism throughout her adult life.
The deaths of my mom and Amanda resulted in a level of grief I had never experienced before.
Grief like this is so weird. It comes in unexpected waves. And sometimes those waves come in the middle of the night.
I pray that my mom and Amanda are now in God's warm embrace.
Love,
Paul
It's the third day of the self-quarantine. (That sounds so dramatic.)
The dry cough is still present but is currently masked by cough medicine. No sore throat today.
I thought that I felt a little warm this morning but my temperature reading was 98.5. So, no fever.
I didn't sleep well last night. But, honestly, I haven't been sleeping well for much of the past 10 months.
Last July, we moved to Lake Nona, FL, for Eric's new gig. And, for our house here, we bought a new Tempurpedic bed. I thought I was going to love this bed. At the store, it seemed so soft and luscious. Truth be told, I bullied Eric into spending more than he wanted to buy it.
But, the bed has turned out to be too soft and squishy, especially at the edges. It's hard to maintain a comfortable position for a full night.
But it's not just the bed. It's also the anxiety.
The anxiety comes from multiple places: figuring out how to successfully work remotely; the horrible state of our national politics; and the recent deaths of my mom and one of my sisters.
My mom, Diane Hertzler (pictured) died in November at age 61 after a short bout with advanced lung cancer that was diagnosed in August.
Last fall, I spent several weeks in Pittsburgh to be present during her time in hospice care.
The second death was that of my half-sister, Amanda Snatchko (pictured). Only 34, she died in January at her apartment in Hawaii. Amanda died following a struggle with alcoholism throughout her adult life.
The deaths of my mom and Amanda resulted in a level of grief I had never experienced before.
Grief like this is so weird. It comes in unexpected waves. And sometimes those waves come in the middle of the night.
I pray that my mom and Amanda are now in God's warm embrace.
Love,
Paul
Sunday, March 15, 2020
COVID-19 Diary: Day 2
Dear Old Blog,
Live from the house in Lake Nona, FL:
The thermometer arrived in yesterday's mail. (Husband Eric was very happy about this.)
My temperature last night was 99.8.
My temperature this afternoon was 98.7.
So, no fever.
The dry cough is somewhat present but not bad at all. Still popping Ricola drops.
Masses are cancelled in many parts of the country this Sunday, but not here in the Diocese of Orlando. But, due to the dry cough, I'm staying clear of folks.
It might be the first time I have missed Sunday Mass since I was a kid. :-(
Spending the day promoting the broadcasts of Masses by the Paulist Fathers.
Love,
Paul
Live from the house in Lake Nona, FL:
The thermometer arrived in yesterday's mail. (Husband Eric was very happy about this.)
My temperature last night was 99.8.
My temperature this afternoon was 98.7.
So, no fever.
The dry cough is somewhat present but not bad at all. Still popping Ricola drops.
Masses are cancelled in many parts of the country this Sunday, but not here in the Diocese of Orlando. But, due to the dry cough, I'm staying clear of folks.
It might be the first time I have missed Sunday Mass since I was a kid. :-(
Spending the day promoting the broadcasts of Masses by the Paulist Fathers.
Love,
Paul
Saturday, March 14, 2020
COVID-19 Diary: Day 1
Dear Old Blog,
Yesterday, I began to have a dry cough at our house here in Lake Nona, FL. The cough is on-and-off today.
Lungs feel a little strange.
Potential of a sore thought addressed by two Ricola drops.
I do not have a fever. But we have ordered a thermometer online.
Psychosomatic symptoms? Will they be difficult to endure?
I guess the 14-day self-quarantine begins now.
Love,
Paul
Friday, October 04, 2019
In Memoriam: Jessye Norman (1945 - 2019)
Earlier this week, the great Jessye Norman entered eternal life. She was 74.
I once had the honor to meet Ms. Norman at an event at Washington & Jefferson College in Washington, PA.
Simply put, she had super powers. And the world is much less for her passing. Two examples:
I once had the honor to meet Ms. Norman at an event at Washington & Jefferson College in Washington, PA.
Simply put, she had super powers. And the world is much less for her passing. Two examples:
Monday, May 21, 2018
In Front of St. Paul's
From the lens of Ryan Haggerty:
Thursday evening, May 17, 2018: Walking north on Columbus Avenue just south of 60th Street, in front of the Church of St. Paul the Apostle, mother church of the Paulist Fathers. At center is the amazing Jennifer Szweda Jordan. Yours truly (with white temples) is at right.
Jennifer and Ryan were in the Big Apple to cover the Paulist Fathers' Ordination Mass and interview some of the padres for whom I am blessed to work.
Monday, March 19, 2018
In Memoriam: Tripp Zanetis, 1980 - 2018
Specifically, the "Pottersville" scenes have been in my thoughts. These are the alternate-timeline scenes in which the film's protagonist, George Bailey, had never been born and was therefore not present at key moments to provide critical help for his family members, his friends and his town.
On Thursday, somewhere along the Iraq - Syria border, this kind of history-changing, vacuum-creating event took place in our real world when a military helicopter crashed, killing all seven people on board.
Among the lost was Tripp Zanetis, who I had known for about eight years through our common service on the board of directors of the New York University College of Arts & Science Alumni Association (of which I now serve as president).
I am worried that Tripp's death at the young age of 37 will leave a hole in our history similar to that experienced by the fictional Bedford Falls that never knew a George Bailey.
Because, I believe, if Tripp had lived into old age, he would have been a change-maker in our civic life. In fact, he already was one.
A member of the NYU College of Arts & Science Class of 2003, Tripp served as chair of the NYU Student Senators Council (a role which is basically NYU's student body president).
Almost immediately after his graduation, he became active in NYU alumni activities, serving as a faithful member of our various committees in between his tours of duty overseas and his work with the New York City Fire Department.
While earning his law degree at Stanford University in California, Tripp frequently called into our meetings, providing valuable insights of an active alumnus outside of the New York City area.
Be sure to read "Knock With Your Elbows," a beautiful tribute to Tripp by Michelle Wilde Anderson, one of his professors at Stanford Law. This Facebook post by Tripp's friend Justin Fansler also is required reading. Michelle and Justin eloquently provide many more details on the impact of Tripp's life and service.
The last time I saw Tripp was at our "CAS Alumni Experience and Brand Ambassadors" committee meeting. I asked him then, as I always did, when he was going to let me run his campaign for Congress, only half-joking as we did expect him to run for office one day.
On that night, Tripp flashed his handsome smile and explained he was about to head back to Iraq so any thoughts of political campaigns would have to be postponed a little longer. (But, as you can see from Tripp's Twitter account, our current political crisis was very much in his thoughts.)
But now, that run for New York City Council or U.S. Congress will never happen.
And, Tripp will never be one of my successors as president of the NYU CAS Alumni Association.
And, and, and ...
But, into this vacuum we must try to step.
In our own ways, we must try to do acts of service and acts of kindness to fill the void left by the tragic end of Tripp's wonderful life.
Sunday, February 11, 2018
Fly On
Tonight, Eric and I watched some of NBC's coverage of the Winter Olympics in Korea.
During the figure skating team event, I was intrigued by the quiet Coldplay song to which Adam Rippon skated: "O" / "Fly On."
How is it possible that I've never heard this 2012 - 2014 piece?
Or, has it just never made an impression on me before?
Whichever, it's lovely and peaceful.
For a listen:
During the figure skating team event, I was intrigued by the quiet Coldplay song to which Adam Rippon skated: "O" / "Fly On."
How is it possible that I've never heard this 2012 - 2014 piece?
Or, has it just never made an impression on me before?
Whichever, it's lovely and peaceful.
For a listen:
Saturday, February 10, 2018
Folk Tunes
For a "YouTube clip for a peaceful weekend":
In this video, we hear a selection of folk tunes assembled by Béla Bartók that were presented during an installment of Noontime Concerts in November, 2017, at Old St. Mary's Cathedral in San Francisco.
Cue Laura Griffiths on oboe and Miles Graber at the piano:
Video by Kevin McGlynn.
In this video, we hear a selection of folk tunes assembled by Béla Bartók that were presented during an installment of Noontime Concerts in November, 2017, at Old St. Mary's Cathedral in San Francisco.
Cue Laura Griffiths on oboe and Miles Graber at the piano:
Video by Kevin McGlynn.
Sunday, February 04, 2018
Saturday, October 28, 2017
Shenandoah
I've shared the beautiful folk song "Shenandoah" in this space once before.
It's been a favorite of mine since I sang it with the community chorus in my hometown years and years ago.
It's been a favorite of mine since I sang it with the community chorus in my hometown years and years ago.
Today, I came across a beautiful take on the tune by VOCES8. Here it is for a "YouTube clip for a peaceful weekend."
Peace:
Peace:
Friday, August 18, 2017
"History"
Others have already said this in recent days but it bears repeating:
For the sake of "history," we do not need statues of Confederate generals who fought for the right of some people to own and sell other people.
That's why we have books and films and audio recordings.
We don't have statues of Hitler in the United States of America. We don't have statues of Emporer Hirohito in the United States. We don't have statues of Kaiser Wilhem II in the United States. We don't have statues of King George III in the United States. All of these men once waged war again our country. And none of them have been forgotten to history.
But, history does demand this: remembering that Robert E. Lee and every other Confederate general and soldier waged war against the United States for the right of some people to own and sell other people.
These men were defeated by the Union Army. They were enemies of the United States. They were fighting for an evil cause.
And anyone who defends or seeks to honor them today is on the wrong side of history.
P.S. If you call yourself "pro-life" or "pro-family," and you defend the men who fought for slavery, you're neither pro-life nor pro-family.
Sunday, November 27, 2016
Broken
For Christian traditions that follow the liturgical calendar, today is the first day of Advent.
It's a special time of prayer and reflection that prepares us to celebrate Christmas.
It's a time when we think a lot about why Jesus came into the world. It's a time when we contemplate our belief that humanity's relationship with God became so broken that God had to come to earth physically and be with us for a time. (Think of your mom yelling, "Don't make me come down there!")
This concept of "broken relationship" has been on my mind a lot lately. It sure does seem like something is broken right now. There's something broken in our country. Something broken in families and among friends.
The presidential election demonstrated that so many of us are not on the same page when it comes to values and priorities.
The election demonstrated that some of the things that really bother me are not the same things that bother some of the people I love. And, as something of an OCD control freak, this bothers me!
I'm also troubled by the extent to which I didn't know this chasm existed. I'm troubled by how out of touch I was, not only with millions of other Americans, but out of touch with the true thinking of many of my own family members and friends.
On Wednesday, November 9, in my anger, I unfriended and blocked on Facebook anyone I saw cheering the election of Donald Trump. Family members, childhood friends, high school classmates, longtime political allies, people who attended our wedding. If you voted for Trump, I was done with you.
And, then came good Pope Francis and some of the priests with whom I work, reminding me that I need to forgive and listen sincerely — that I shouldn't oppose the great orange wall-builder by building walls of my own. Ugh.
All of which brings us to the video below from Sojourners. It's a bit on the dramatic side for my taste. But, it's good for thought in this season of discontent and on this first Sunday of Advent 2016:
It's a special time of prayer and reflection that prepares us to celebrate Christmas.
It's a time when we think a lot about why Jesus came into the world. It's a time when we contemplate our belief that humanity's relationship with God became so broken that God had to come to earth physically and be with us for a time. (Think of your mom yelling, "Don't make me come down there!")
This concept of "broken relationship" has been on my mind a lot lately. It sure does seem like something is broken right now. There's something broken in our country. Something broken in families and among friends.
The presidential election demonstrated that so many of us are not on the same page when it comes to values and priorities.
The election demonstrated that some of the things that really bother me are not the same things that bother some of the people I love. And, as something of an OCD control freak, this bothers me!
I'm also troubled by the extent to which I didn't know this chasm existed. I'm troubled by how out of touch I was, not only with millions of other Americans, but out of touch with the true thinking of many of my own family members and friends.
On Wednesday, November 9, in my anger, I unfriended and blocked on Facebook anyone I saw cheering the election of Donald Trump. Family members, childhood friends, high school classmates, longtime political allies, people who attended our wedding. If you voted for Trump, I was done with you.
And, then came good Pope Francis and some of the priests with whom I work, reminding me that I need to forgive and listen sincerely — that I shouldn't oppose the great orange wall-builder by building walls of my own. Ugh.
All of which brings us to the video below from Sojourners. It's a bit on the dramatic side for my taste. But, it's good for thought in this season of discontent and on this first Sunday of Advent 2016:
Friday, October 02, 2015
How High The Moon
This year, Eric's dad and stepmom are both marking major birthdays as well as their 25th wedding anniversary in December. Two weeks ago, to help celebrate their milestones, we spent a fun long weekend together in Nashville, along with his Eric's two sisters and their husbands.
That Saturday evening, we went to the Grand Ole Opry. Among the many performers were the Quebe Sisters (described as "triple-threat fiddle champions"). I was very happy to hear their cover of the '40s jazz standard "How High The Moon."
I've loved "How High The Moon" since I first heard it during the opening credits of the 1988 film "Biloxi Blues" in a lovely slow (even mournful) take by Pat Suzuki.
For a "YouTube clip for a peaceful weekend," here below are both of those renditions.
Peace:
That Saturday evening, we went to the Grand Ole Opry. Among the many performers were the Quebe Sisters (described as "triple-threat fiddle champions"). I was very happy to hear their cover of the '40s jazz standard "How High The Moon."
I've loved "How High The Moon" since I first heard it during the opening credits of the 1988 film "Biloxi Blues" in a lovely slow (even mournful) take by Pat Suzuki.
For a "YouTube clip for a peaceful weekend," here below are both of those renditions.
Peace:
Friday, July 10, 2015
The Silent Wish You Make
Recently, I have been doing some research on the work of lyricists Alan and Marilyn Bergman. (Marilyn Bergman is a fellow graduate of NYU's undergraduate liberal arts college.)
While going through the many songs for which the couple has created lyrics, I came across a gorgeous rendition of "What Are You Doing The Rest Of Your Life?" performed by Stacey Kent and Jim Tomlinson.
Here it is below as a "YouTube clip for a peaceful weekend."
Peace:
P.S. This song was written for the 1969 film "The Happy Ending." But, I'd say it fits perfectly with the current-day #LoveWins hashtag.
While going through the many songs for which the couple has created lyrics, I came across a gorgeous rendition of "What Are You Doing The Rest Of Your Life?" performed by Stacey Kent and Jim Tomlinson.
Here it is below as a "YouTube clip for a peaceful weekend."
Peace:
P.S. This song was written for the 1969 film "The Happy Ending." But, I'd say it fits perfectly with the current-day #LoveWins hashtag.
Monday, June 29, 2015
Respect It So Deeply
Two weeks before Eric and I married in June, 2013, I received an email from a friend who is a Catholic seminarian. In the message, my friend urged me not to proceed with the wedding. His concerns were strongly-worded but heart-felt.
My friend's message forced me to spend extra time articulating the "why" of our wedding and our marriage. Amidst the execution of a million last-minute details of a Manhattan wedding, that email compelled me to articulate how our big day was not the repudiation of my faith but the fulfillment of it.
As a Catholic Christian, having identified the other human being with whom I intended to spend the rest of my life, I was compelled to create a special time and place where our family members and friends would come to pray with us and over us -- while being uplifted by sacred music and hearing from sacred scripture. (Our Liturgy of the Word purposefully began with the chanting of the Taize setting of "Veni Sancte Spiritus.")
As a Catholic Christian, I was compelled to make a public statement of lifelong commitment to the man I loved. (We did so using the prayers and vows of the Church's Rite of Marriage.)
I never expected to find sentiments akin to this in a ruling from the U.S. Supreme Court. But, there they were last week in Justice Anthony Kennedy's majority opinion in Obergefell v. Hodges that has brought marriage equality to ever state in the nation:
The money quote:
" ... Their plea is that they do respect it, respect it so deeply that the seek to find its fulfillment for themselves. ... "
Amen, Justice Kennedy. Amen.
Saturday, March 28, 2015
Jay Livingston's Centennial
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Earlier this week, the Observer-Reporter's Brad Hundt wrote about his youth in McDonald (when he was still known as Jacob Harold Levison).
Together with Ray Evans, Jay Livingston wrote the standards ''Mona Lisa'' and ''Que Será, Será,'' the 1948 Oscar-winning song ''Buttons and Bows,'' "Tammy" and many other songs.
The pair also wrote the theme music for the television shows ''Bonanza'' and ''Mr. Ed.''
In honor of this centennial, here is a "YouTube clip for a peaceful weekend" of Nat King Cole singing "Mona Lisa."
Peace:
Flashback: "Hear Them Ring"
Saturday, February 28, 2015
Pittsburgh Poet
This week, The Wall Street Journal reported on Pittsburgh poet Billie Nardozzi (front page, below the fold). I read it while riding the A train, loving the chance to learn about a quintessential Pittsburgher.
A bit of James R. Hagerty's story:
For more, check out this Tumblr page dedicated to Billie's poems.... His style is plain spoken, his inspirations diverse. He writes about anything from the comfort of a loyal dog to the pain caused by insensitive relatives. His verse tends to be low on angst. “I hate negativity,” says Mr. Nardozzi, who often writes his poems, longhand, on a lined legal notepad in his home office.Some of his poems pay tribute to individuals. A recent one, for instance, is dedicated to Pittsburgh Mayor William Peduto:He’s great for this city
And he’s what we have needed
And his ideas for change
Should always be heededMayor Peduto said he has a framed copy of the poem, mailed to him by Mr. Nardozzi, on his office wall. Representatives of the Queen of England, the Prince of Wales and Conan O’Brien all sent thank-you notes for poems dedicated to them.Given his penchant for the Beatles, he once penned an ode to the people of the United Kingdom. That poem, called “The British,” reads, in part:I think you’re the coolest people
Living on this earth
And honestly and seriously speaking
I really think it is there from birth
And you write the most beautiful songs
That I have ever heard in my life
For they speak of passionate love
Between a gentleman and his wifeMany of his poems are published online by the Arkansas Free Press, which welcomes contributions but doesn’t pay for them. “Billie is our most prolific writer,” said Tracy Crain, editor of the Free Press. “He has a very tender heart, and he really has a need to share.” ...
Friday, January 16, 2015
In Memoriam: Stefan Schack, 1972 - 2014
Back in my single days, I dated four people who had birthdays during this middle week of January. I always wondered what it was that attracted these mid-winter babies to a summer person like me.One of these old flames was Stefan Schack, whose birthday was today (January 16). Sadly, this was a birthday that Stefan did not live to see. He passed away on July 29, 2014.
Stefan had a beautiful, deep voice. He was a man with devoted friends. And, he had a keen photographer's eye. (His Instagram account is a wonderful tribute to his love for architecture and the places he visited.)
Via Facebook, I still can read the messages that Stefan and I exchanged. After Eric and I announced our engagement, he was so gracious, writing, "Hey stranger - heard you are getting married! Just wanted to say congratulations - wish you the best ... "
I pray that you are resting in peace, Stefan. The world is less for your early passing.
And, "Happy Birthday!" one last time.
Saturday, December 13, 2014
Haul Out The Holly
It's that time of year.
For a "YouTube clip for a peaceful weekend," here is Angela Lansbury and friends singing "We Need a Little Christmas" as it was first heard in the 1966 musical "Mame."
Peace:
Hat-tip: Rev. Gerardo Ramirez, who made mention of this tune yesterday on Facebook.
For a "YouTube clip for a peaceful weekend," here is Angela Lansbury and friends singing "We Need a Little Christmas" as it was first heard in the 1966 musical "Mame."
Peace:
Hat-tip: Rev. Gerardo Ramirez, who made mention of this tune yesterday on Facebook.
Friday, December 12, 2014
Guadalupe's Day
Many months ago, I spied this Instagram photo (snapped by our friend James) showing a statue of Our Lady of Guadalupe. Thought I'd share it for today's feast day:
Our Lady of Guadalupe, pray for us.
Our Lady of Guadalupe, pray for us.
Wednesday, December 10, 2014
Uncle Joe's Centennial
My great-great uncle, Joseph Berger, was born 100 years ago today on December 10, 1914, in McDonald, Pennsylvania. Uncle Joe was the youngest sibling of my maternal great-grandmother, Mary Berger Vincenti (1911 - 1999). He died in 2012 at the age of 97, making him the longest-lived member of my family.
At the time of Uncle Joe's 95th birthday in 2009, I penned a post on his life. Among other details, it notes he was the son of immigrants from Belgium.
It was through Uncle Joe and Grandma Vincenti and their sister, Ann Berger Barrick, that my generation received a sliver of connection to that immigrant history (including a delicious recipe for thick Belgian galettes).
Here's to keeping their memory alive for many years to come.
Monday, October 27, 2014
Sweet, Sweet Spirit
On Friday night, Eric and I saw an excellent performance of the play "Sweet, Sweet Spirit" presented by Manhattan Theater Works at the 14th Street Y. Written by Carol Carpenter, it's the story of a Texas family grappling with violence, faith, sexuality, money and more.
The play briefly incorporates the hymn of the same name. As you might expect, the tune has been in my head ever since (notably memories of the bass part that I once sang in a choral performance).
So, for some Monday morning inspiration, here is a dynamic rendition of "Sweet, Sweet Spirit" by the a cappella quartet For You:
Hat-tip: Our friend, Ann Marie Yali, who is chair of Manhattan Theater Works' board.
The play briefly incorporates the hymn of the same name. As you might expect, the tune has been in my head ever since (notably memories of the bass part that I once sang in a choral performance).
So, for some Monday morning inspiration, here is a dynamic rendition of "Sweet, Sweet Spirit" by the a cappella quartet For You:
Hat-tip: Our friend, Ann Marie Yali, who is chair of Manhattan Theater Works' board.
Tuesday, July 08, 2014
Smooth as Silk
One hundred years ago today, the great singer and bandleader Billy Eckstine was born in Pittsburgh.In a segment marking the centennial, National Public Radio called him "a crooner who crossed barriers."
"Billy Eckstine was smooth as silk. He was tall and handsome, sported a pencil-thin mustache and sang in a distinctive baritone," remarked NPR's Tom Vitale.
In honor of the day, here is Eckstine with Nat King Cole performing "Rosetta":
Hat-tip: 100 Years Ago Today at Twitter (curated by yours truly)
Monday, April 21, 2014
Lively
A sunny Easter Monday calls for joyful music. Here, compliments of Voices of Music, is the lively Bulgarian folk tune "Bučimiš"("бучиниш"):
Hat-tip: 500 Years Ago Today (new Twitter account curated by yours truly)
Hat-tip: 500 Years Ago Today (new Twitter account curated by yours truly)
Saturday, April 12, 2014
A Good Story
I love this commercial from Thailand. It contains a wonderful, life-affirming message:
Hat-tip: Heather K.
"No one saves oneself. The community is essential." - Pope Francis
Hat-tip: Heather K.
Friday, April 11, 2014
Quis dabit oculis
For this week's "YouTube clip for a peaceful weekend," below is Costanzo Festa's beautiful and contemplative motet "Quis dabit oculis" (written in early 1514). I think it lends itself well to the home stretch of Lent.
Pax:
Hat-tip: 500 Years Ago Today (a new Twitter account curated by yours truly)
Pax:
Hat-tip: 500 Years Ago Today (a new Twitter account curated by yours truly)
Monday, March 31, 2014
Friday, March 28, 2014
It Goes Without Saying
I recently have begun to explore the music of Nico Muhly. His Wikipedia profile describes him as a contemporary classical music composer and arranger. Two loaded words there: "contemporary" and "classical." I aspire to one day have the time and talent to properly unpack them. But, before then, let's listen to one of Muhly's works in this space.
Below is the instrumental composition "It Goes Without Saying" for this week's "YouTube clip for a peaceful weekend." It's a clarinet piece featuring "metallic noises" (including that of a kitchen whisk) and "warm, woody sounds." It's a stretch to call this tune "peaceful" but it's a fun ride.
Pax:
Below is the instrumental composition "It Goes Without Saying" for this week's "YouTube clip for a peaceful weekend." It's a clarinet piece featuring "metallic noises" (including that of a kitchen whisk) and "warm, woody sounds." It's a stretch to call this tune "peaceful" but it's a fun ride.
Pax:
Saturday, March 22, 2014
A Million Miles Away
I love the pacing and peacefulness of "The Moon Song" from the movie "Her." It speaks well of the quiet and tender moments of love that can be shared by two people.
Here it is below for this week's "YouTube clip for a peaceful weekend."
Peace:
Here are the tune's lyrics from the pens of Karen O and Spike Jonze:
Here it is below for this week's "YouTube clip for a peaceful weekend."
Peace:
Here are the tune's lyrics from the pens of Karen O and Spike Jonze:
"I'm lying on the moon
My dear, I'll be there soon
It's a quiet starry place
Time's we're swallowed up
In space we're here a million miles away
My dear, I'll be there soon
It's a quiet starry place
Time's we're swallowed up
In space we're here a million miles away
"There's things I wish I knew
There's no thing I'd keep from you
It's a dark and shiny place
But with you my dear
I'm safe and we're a million miles away
There's no thing I'd keep from you
It's a dark and shiny place
But with you my dear
I'm safe and we're a million miles away
"We're lying on the moon
It's a perfect afternoon
Your shadow follows me all day
Making sure that I'm okay and
We're a million miles away"
It's a perfect afternoon
Your shadow follows me all day
Making sure that I'm okay and
We're a million miles away"
Monday, March 17, 2014
Ever By Your Side
Happy Saint Patrick's Day!
From the great John Rutter, a rather Irish-sounding blessing for the day:
Flashback: St. Paddy's 2010
From the great John Rutter, a rather Irish-sounding blessing for the day:
Flashback: St. Paddy's 2010
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